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Matrugaya Pooja, step by step

Matrugaya Pooja — also called Matru Shraddha or Matru Gaya Shraddha — is the shraddha a child offers for their departed mother. It is performed at Bindu Sarovar in Siddhpur, Gujarat, through tarpan and pinda daan guided by a tirth purohit.

What is Matrugaya Pooja?

Matrugaya Pooja is the shraddha offered specifically for one’s mother. In Hindu tradition, a mother’s care and sacrifice create a debt (matru rin) that a child can never fully repay; offering shraddha at Siddhpur is regarded as the most sacred way to honour her and pray for her peace.

The rite brings together the essential acts of every shraddha — the sankalp, tarpan (offering of water) and pinda daan (offering of pindas) — performed for the mother, at the place tradition holds most fitting for it.

Why Siddhpur and Bindu Sarovar?

Siddhpur is revered as Matru Gaya — just as Gaya in Bihar is the chief tirtha for shraddha for one’s father, Siddhpur is the tirtha for shraddha for one’s mother.

The Srimad Bhagavatam (Canto 3) describes Bindu Sarovar, on the Sarasvati, as the hermitage of Sage Kardama and his wife Devahuti, and the place where their son, Lord Kapila, taught his mother the path to liberation. By long tradition this Bindu Sarovar is identified with the sacred tank at Siddhpur. Gujarat Tourism also records the tradition that Parashurama performed shraddha for his mother here.

Read more about the significance of Bindu Sarovar →

Who can perform Matrugaya Pooja?

It is performed for a mother who has passed away, most often by her son or daughter. Daughters, married or unmarried, do perform it at Siddhpur.

Questions about other relatives — for example a grandchild performing it for a grandmother, or a husband for his wife — are answered differently in different families and communities. Rather than rely on a general web page (including this one), tell the purohit your situation; they will explain what your family tradition allows.

When should it be performed?

Matrugaya Pooja can be arranged through most of the year. Many families choose a date after the first death anniversary, or a day with personal or religious significance such as the tithi of the mother’s passing.

  • Busiest months: Kartik, Bhadrapad and Chaitra. Siddhpur’s traditional fair runs from Kartik Ekadashi to Kartik Purnima, when the town is especially crowded.
  • Pitru Paksha — the fortnight dedicated to ancestors — is also a popular time for shraddha.
  • Book early for these periods, and allow for crowds and slower movement around the precinct.

What happens during the rite

The purohit leads you through each step and explains it as it happens. The exact sequence varies with family tradition and the rites you have chosen; this is the usual outline.

  1. 01

    Purification

    The day begins with a bath and a change into clean clothes. Many men have their heads shaved (mundan) before a shraddha; whether your family follows this is your choice — ask the purohit.

  2. 02

    Sankalp

    Seated with the purohit, you state your intention. The sankalp names your mother, the family gotra and the place and day of the rite.

  3. 03

    Tarpan

    Water mixed with sesame (til) is offered with kusha grass while the purohit recites the mantras and tells you what each offering signifies.

  4. 04

    Pinda daan

    Pindas — balls of cooked rice or flour with sesame — are prepared and offered for your mother. This is the heart of Matrugaya Pooja.

  5. 05

    At the sacred kunds

    The precinct has three sacred kunds — Bindu Sarovar, Alpa Sarovar and Gyan Vapi. The purohit guides you to them as the rite requires.

  6. 06

    Dakshina and darshan

    The rite closes with dakshina and, if your family wishes, Brahmin bhojan. Many families then take darshan at the temples around the sarovar.

How long does it take?

Plan for about three to four hours for the main rite. Additional rites, a large family group or a crowded day can make it longer. Keep the whole day free: arrive early, and avoid booking a tight onward train or flight.

What to bring and wear

You can bring your own puja samagri, or we arrange it for you and you offer dakshina accordingly. Either way, you will usually need:

  • A change of clothes — plain, light-coloured cotton is commonly preferred for the rite
  • Your mother’s name, your family gotra (if known), and the date or tithi of her passing
  • A towel and footwear that is easy to remove
  • Cash for dakshina and incidental expenses
  • Photo ID for your hotel or dharamshala

What we arrange

We are tirth purohits based in Siddhpur. For families who book with us, we:

  • conduct the rite at Bindu Sarovar and explain each step in Gujarati, Hindi or English
  • arrange the priests the rite needs
  • arrange the puja samagri, if you would like us to
  • help you choose a suitable date
  • arrange your hotel, travel and a local guide on request — charged separately
  • perform the rite online when a family cannot travel

Families may also add offerings such as Brahmin bhojan, vastra daan or gau daan. These are charged in addition — see the full list.

A purohit explaining the rite to a family seated in a ritual hall, with copper kalash and offerings arranged before them
The purohit explains each step to the family

How to book

  1. Message or call us with the rite, your preferred dates and the number of people travelling.
  2. Receive a quote for the rite, any additional offerings, and any hotel or travel you would like us to arrange.
  3. Confirm your date with an advance payment.
  4. Call us when you reach Siddhpur and come to our home near Ashapuri Mata. We go to Bindu Sarovar together — never go with people who approach you there.

See cost & booking for what affects the price, and plan your visit for travel and stay.

More questions

Can daughters perform Matrugaya Pooja?

Yes — daughters, married or unmarried, perform Matrugaya Pooja for their mother at Siddhpur. If you have specific questions about your family custom, ask the purohit before you travel.

Can we perform it if our father is also no longer with us?

Matrugaya Pooja is offered for the mother. Families often ask about rites for the father or other ancestors on the same visit; the purohit will advise what is appropriate and whether it can be done the same day.

What if a woman performing the rite is menstruating on the planned date?

Many families follow the custom of not performing the rite during menstruation. If this may affect your dates, tell us when you plan — rescheduling is easier the earlier we know.

Can the rite be performed without travelling to Siddhpur?

Yes. When a family cannot come to Siddhpur, we can perform the rite online. Call us to discuss how it would work for your family.

Do we need a muhurat?

Many families choose a date with personal or religious significance, such as the tithi of the mother’s passing. The purohit can help you choose a suitable date within your travel window.
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